Bait him with your body, and keep him with your brain.
Dress sexy, and stylishly. Wear something to accentuate your best body parts. Stand straight, make sure your bum looks good, lift your boobs. Trick is to tease - highlight the bustiness but don't make it overwhelming. My advice would be jeans and a black singlet. Hair down, tousled just out of bed look. Don't overdo the makeup. Just moisturiser and mascara.
Tell yourself you look a million dollars and everyone around you will think you look it.
Now how to reel him in:
- Ask him out of the ordinary questions: first car, favourite concerts, sports team, dogs vs cats etc.
- Share opinions on various topics rather than asking point blank tell me about yourself questions
- Pay attention to what he's saying to take the focus off yourself.
Men want sex, so be careful of being too dry - maintain the fun and flirting with the function. Keep him wanting to come back for more.
Have an escape route. If you feel off at all... leave. Stay in a well lit public place, and don't let him walk you to your car unless you feel safe. Make sure you park somewhere in the open.
If you don't hit it off, leave by saying "thanks for meeting with me". Don't say anything about contacting him again.
Remember, he's not out to get married. Keep it fun, carefree, and don't put any pressure on him. Don't talk about previous relationships.
Having sex on the first date is not a no-no - contrary to popular belief. If you want to - do it. If you don't - don't. If its right - it doesn't matter when you sleep together and there's no mystery lost or any of that romantic notion stuff. Just make sure its on your terms.
Above all else, remember he'll be nervous as hell too. Be honest, be friendly and fun, and just don't expect too much.
Good luck... on behalf of me and lots of advice borrowed heavily from Steve Santagati! :)
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